Turn On Your Life — Free 7-Day Challenge

Experience more turn-on, vitality and pleasure in 1 week than most people feel in 1 year — no matter your circumstances!

7 days to cultivate your Erotic Aliveness — with our community of Intimacy Artists — creating ripples so high-vibe people wonder what you're on and want to have what you're having! 🤣

JOIN THE 7-DAY CHALLENGE FOR ~~$177~~ FREE (for now)!

(become the one who can turn yourself on, anytime, anywhere.)

"Mom is glowing!" — after ONE session — Wendy's daughter

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"More connected than EVER, after 17 years of marriage" — Natalie

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"We feel 20 years old again" — Dan

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"My confidence skyrocketed" — Kay

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"Asexual for 30 years. This was earth shattering" — Wendy

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"I feel like a new man" — David

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"Mom is glowing!" — after ONE session — Wendy's daughter

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"More connected than EVER, after 17 years of marriage" — Natalie

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"We feel 20 years old again" — Dan

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"My confidence skyrocketed" — Kay

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"Asexual for 30 years. This was earth shattering" — Wendy

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"I feel like a new man" — David

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Who benefits from you turning it down?

Dimming. Repressing. Suppressing. Shaming. Getting small.

Not you. Not the people who love you. Not the world.

We've been conditioned to believe that...

...sexual energy is risky, shameful — something to keep separate.

...pleasure is earned — after the to-do list, on weekends, on vacation.

...we need the right partner or circumstances... to be allowed to feel turned on.

What is true

Sexual energy is life force. Creative power. It fuels your vitality, confidence, magnetism — everywhere you go.

Pleasure is nourishment. When you cultivate it daily, everything feels more energized, easeful and connective.

You are the source. You have the switch. You have the power to light yourself up, or an entire room — from the inside out.

You may crave intimacy that feels connected, electric, authentic, passionate.
And you've tried...

⚡ Therapy — great for understanding why you feel flat. Doesn't make you feel alive.

⚡ Communication skills — helpful! But you can know all the right words and still feel nothing in your body.

⚡ Date nights, lingerie, toys, etc — like new curtains in a house with no electricity. It's nice. Not what lights you up.

But it goes wayyy beyond intimacy.
Erotic energy isn't a nice-to-have for the right circumstances.

It's your LIFE FORCE — what makes you feel alive in ANY situation.

An Intimacy Artist chooses aliveness — in their body, relationships, lives — on purpose.

Inside Turn On Your Life, pleasure becomes your baseline.
How you move through the world — as you were designed to. 🔥

My story: Sneakily Turned Down

I woke up in a sigh...

Dragging my feet. Doing what I thought a "good wife" does.

Palmtree outside our window, "power couple" building our dream business...
It looked good from the outside — but it felt heavy.
Living for a future that never came. Even doing what I love, I felt disconnected.

My turn-on was sneakily yet steadily going downhill.

I searched outside myself. Better communication. More effort. More trying.

Asking for a hug, I was called needy.
So I got smaller. Quieter about what I wanted.
I felt depressed.
Small decisions made to keep things "good" were slowly shutting me down — turning down my aliveness, my fire, my turn-on.

It was slowly killing me, and the relationship.

Meeting me today, you'd never imagine how turned off I'd been.

I had to learn how to turn myself back on.

Now, you'll find me dancing at the grocery store, singing out loud walking the dogs, laughing for no apparent reason — because life feels so good.

But… divorce happened before I found the "switch" — and I then realized so many relationships end that way. Yet, no one teaches this.

Beyond polarity, communication skills, attachment style…
your turn on, your energy, your erotic presence is where it's at.

Everything becomes more pleasurable — even the most mundane tasks!

And it ripples out in all areas of your life.

After years of supporting hundreds through my brand Empowered Connection, I recently created this free Intimacy Artists community — which immediately grew to 160+ people — and I had this shower thought…

💭 What amazing HIGH-VIBE ripple effect could we create in the world if we all cultivated our turn-on together for 1 week!? 💫

We are doing it!
I distilled in Turn On Your Life the exact method I use to generate aliveness and pleasure, anytime I want.

On a Tuesday. In traffic. Doing dishes.
No matter what's happening outside of you.

You know, it's not about more information.
It's time to feel real shifts, in your body.

Welcome to Turn On Your Life. 🔥
And, your community, of Intimacy Artists.

Imagine...

Not someday. Not after the right partner shows up. Now.

You wake up smiling, excited for the day ahead.

Humming while making breakfast, hips swaying, the early morning sun on your skin. You're not waiting for the weekend to feel turned on by life. It's already happening.

"More connected than EVER, in 17 years of marriage." — Natalie

People feel your aliveness as soon as you walk into the room.

Your body is relaxed, grounded, confident. Conversations light you up, because you choose to. That low-grade performance anxiety: gone. That is Erotic Presence.

"I feel like a new man." — David

"What are you ON?! You're GLOWING. I want whatever you're having!"

Says a friend you haven't seen in months. You remember how you felt last time you saw each other — and now you feel so damn good!

"Mom is glowing! What have you done?" — Wendy's daughter

Someone cuts you off in traffic — and you SMILE. Genuinely.

Your life is filled with so much delight that the world's friction doesn't land the same way anymore.

"My confidence skyrocketed." — Kay

"It transformed how I show up in every area of my life." — Martin

Not because something changed around you. Because something turned on — within you.

🔥 You inhabit your body — present, grounded, sensual, vital
🔥 Pleasure is your new baseline — you experience in every moment
🔥 Your energy compounds — creativity, confidence, drive, all time high
🔥 Connection deepens — with yourself, people you love, & life itself
🔥 You're Turned On for LIFE

My Promise to You

Everyone can learn to turn themselves on, on demand.

When you do, everything starts to feel and taste better.

In 7 days, I give you the exact practices that have me spontaneously dance at the grocery store, sing out loud walking the dogs, and make dinner like it's a celebration — so you can be turned on for the rest of your life.

No matter where you're at in your journey — this is powerful. 🔥

I've worked with people who hadn't felt desire in years. People in long-term relationships that had gone quiet. Singles who'd given up on feeling magnetic. People who thought they were "just not that sexual." And people who thought they were already pretty turned on — and opened up a whole new dimension they didn't know was there.

"We had come to believe my wife was asexual. For over 30 years I tried everything. No dice. After one session with Marilys, our daughters looked at Wendy and said: 'What did you do? Mom is glowing!' Now in our midlife we feel more turned on than in our 20s and have never been more excited about the adventures ahead together." — Dan

"I've done a lot of therapy in my life. In terms of experiential growth in a short period of time, working with Marilys has been nothing short of miraculous. I've become much more confident expressing my desires. People close to me have noticed a change — and people I've just met seem more open and receptive to me in ways I hadn't experienced before." — David

"What I gained transformed every area of my life — not just relationships, but how I show up everywhere. The value I received far exceeded my expectations." — Martin

What happens inside Turn On Your Life

Simple. Powerful. 7 days.

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We kick things off together — live.

Join me live for the Turn On Kickoff on day 1: Turn On Your Erotic Presence, June 25th. We set the tone, the energy, and the intention for the whole week — together.

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Embodied practices land in your inbox, every day.

Short, felt, immediately useable — a shift you can feel and integrate right away. Each day builds on the last, so you turn it up a notch as the week goes on.

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We come together inside the Intimacy Artist Community throughout the week.

160+ humans choosing aliveness & genuine connection. Together we compound it.

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We close it out together — live.

Secrets of an Orgasmic Life on day 7 — integration, reflection, and a celebration of everything that shifted this week.

Each day, a new dimension of your aliveness expands

Turn On Your Erotic Presence - Live Call

Reclaim pleasure not as a destination but as how you experience the world. Warning: you may get high on your own supply ;)

Turn On Your Desires

Permission to want what you want — learn to channel that energy into aliveness instead of contracting.

Turn On Your Erotic Body

Your body is the instrument, and you can tune it and activate it yourself. A practice that can shift everything in 5 minutes.

Turn On from Your Intimate Muscles

The most overlooked foundation of pleasure and aliveness. Toned, awake, alive — from the inside out.

Turn Up Your Erotic Energy

Your sexual energy is your most powerful, creative, healing resource. Learn to circulate it intentionally and watch magic happen.

Compound Your Energy

Intro to the Feminine & Masculine Dance: the polarity that creates erotic tension and aliveness — inside and out.

Secrets of an Orgasmic Life - Live Call

Anchoring it all — Integration & Celebration. This is only the beginning. Because you are an Intimacy Artist.

FAQ

You might be wondering...

Is this open to all genders?

Yes. Eros belongs to every human. Any gender, any orientation, any relationship status.

What if I'm single?

Most practices are solo. Your relationship with your own body is the foundation everything else is built on.

Is this sexually explicit?

No. Think more "finally feeling alive in your body." This is about your vitality.

I've done therapy, yoga and tantra. How is this different?

TOYL connects you directly with your body's erotic intelligence — rooted in modern nervous system science and following tantric principles, it's designed for immediate somatic shifts.

How do I access it?

After registering you'll receive a confirmation email from Flodesk — click the confirmation link to activate your spot. Your daily practices will then land in your inbox each morning.

Is it really free?

Yes — I want to turn on the whole world. After the challenge, there will be an invitation to continue on this path together with Orgasmic Life — and whether that's for you or not, I love that we get to at least have 7 days together. ❤

You have two options.

Stay in a life that's honestly not bad — maybe even pretty good — but keep that quiet background hum of is this it? Keep wondering if there could be more turn-on, more energy, more aliveness. Keep looking to your partner, your next trip, your next achievement to make you feel it.

Spend 7 days to take back the power switch and own it like you mean it. 😄 Be the one dancing at the grocery store because life actually feels that good. Be the one whose energy walks into the room before they do. Be the one who can turn themselves on, anywhere, anytime — and in doing so, creates ripples from the inside out. Because you are an Intimacy Artist.

That's what's possible inside Turn On Your Life.

This is for you if...

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