Free 7-Day Challenge · Starts June 12th Turn On Your Life

Experience more turn-on, vitality and pleasure in 7 days than most people feel in a whole year — no matter your circumstances!

The only FREE challenge empowering you to cultivate your OWN Erotic Aliveness — alongside 150+ Intimacy Artists — creating ripples so high-vibe people start asking what are you on and want to have what you're having!

The world has been telling you to turn it down your whole life.

Pure aliveness
Marilys — embodied and free
Marilys kitesurfing

"I was living on the beach, building my dream business with my husband who I loved dearly... We were the power couple everyone looked up to, and my Eros was the most turned off it'd ever been in my life (maybe besides when I was suicidal at 13 — but that's a story for another time 😅)."

And I was waking up in a sigh. Dragging my feet. Trying to be a good wife, yet, while there was a lot to be grateful for, I felt disconnected.

Feeling lost as to how to turn it back on.

I looked outside myself. Better communication. More effort. More trying.

What I didn't know yet is that the switch was inside me all along.

As it is inside you.

But we have been conditioned to tone it down for years so it's as we forgot we own the switch!

It took a divorce and a community circle in Nicaragua (another great story)... to start learning to turn it back on. Then, many more years to understand how deeply empowering it is to reclaim our capacity to turn it on, on demand!

What I share in this challenge puts the power switch back in YOUR hands.

You generate aliveness and pleasure, anytime.

On a Tuesday. In traffic. Doing dishes.

Welcome to Turn On Your Life Challenge! ;)

Maybe… connection feels like a polite roommate agreement.

Or you move through your day wondering... is this really it?

There is nothing wrong with you. You're not too old. Not too busy.

And it's not your partner. Not your libido. Not your trauma.

There are really only two reasons:

1 — You keep looking outside yourself.

2 — You've been told to turn it down

— subtly, not so subtly, for years — but no one ever showed you to turn it back up!

Who benefits from you turning it down?

Dimming. Repressing. Suppressing. Shaming. Getting small.

...Not you. Not the people who love you. Not the world.

What we've been led to believe
What is true
Sexual energy is risky. Shameful. Something to keep separate from "real" life.
It's life force. Creative power. The fuel for confidence, vitality, magnetism and connection — and it belongs in every room you walk into.
Pleasure is earned. After the to-do list. On weekends. On vacation.
Pleasure isn't a reward. It's our natural state. When you cultivate it as a way of life, you feel more energized and everything feels more easeful.
You need the right partner, the right moment, the right circumstances to feel turned on.
Erotic aliveness is inherent in you. It's the source code within each of us. You just haven't been taught to cultivate it.

Your numbness is not maturity.

Your aliveness, erotic presence, turn-on is experienced through your body's sensation.

You may have been looking for what's missing in...

Therapy, communication skills, date nights, lingerie, toys, yoga, gym, meditation,...

But that aliveness isn't circumstances based.

It's your LIFE FORCE.

When you Turn On Your Life,

Pleasure becomes your baseline.

Your natural state.

The way you move through the world.

Imagine...

(Not someday. Not after the right partner shows up. Now.)

Embodied joy

You wake up smiling, so excited for the day ahead.

You're humming while making breakfast, hips swaying, enjoying the early morning sun kissing your skin. You're not waiting for the weekend to feel turned on by life. It's already happening.

"Working with Marilys changed my life in the best way. I feel more myself and more connected to my husband than EVER after 17 years of marriage." — Natalie
Magnetic presence

People feel your aliveness as soon as you walk into the room.

Your body is relaxed, grounded, confident. Conversations light you up, because you choose to. That low-grade performance anxiety: gone. That is Erotic Presence.

"I had done a lot of therapy and in terms of exponential growth, working with Marilys has been nothing short of miraculous. I've become much more confident expressing my desires and new people are open and receptive to me in ways I hadn't experienced before." — David
Glowing aliveness

"What are you on?! You're GLOWING. I want whatever you're having!"

Says a friend you haven't seen in months when you meet at the coffee shop. You remember how you felt last time you saw each other and feel grateful.

"When my wife and I returned home after our first session, our daughter looked at her and said: 'What did you do? Mom is glowing!' Now in our midlife we feel 20 years old again." — Dan
Freedom

Someone cuts you off in traffic and you SMILE. Genuinely.

Your life is filled with so much delight that the world's friction doesn't land the same way anymore.

"My confidence skyrocketed. I feel more connected to myself and excited about my life!" — Kay Ferah
"What I gained transformed every area of my life — not just relationships, but how I show up everywhere. The value I received far exceeded my expectations." — Martin

You won't just feel better.

You'll feel different.

Not because something changed around you.
Because something turned on — within you.

Pure freedom

"In terms of experiential growth in a short period of time, working with Marilys has been nothing short of miraculous." — David

Whether you feel completely shut down...

or doing well just sensing there's more…

No matter where you're at in your journey — it will be powerful.

"We had come to believe my wife was asexual. For over 30 years I tried everything. After working with Marilys something turned-on and we've never been so excited about the adventures ahead!" — Dan
"In terms of experiential growth, working with Marilys has been nothing short of miraculous. I feel like a new man." — David
"What I learned transformed every area of my life. The value I received far exceeded my expectations." — Martin

This is for you if...

Not the right fit if...

How does the Turn On Your Life Challenge work?

Simple. Powerful. 7 days.

Receive life-changing wisdom and embodied practices daily straight to your inbox.

A shift you can feel and integrate right away. Each day builds on the last so you turn it up a notch every day.

We come together inside the Intimacy Artist Community throughout the week.

150+ humans choosing aliveness & connection. You'll be witnessed, you'll witness others, and feel the difference between doing this alone and together.

Bonus live sessions with Marilys for those who join early!

Sign up now to receive your invitation to join the live session on day 1: Erotic Presence & Turn-On as a Way of Life on June 12th.

Your 7 days inside Turn On Your Life

Each day, a new dimension of your aliveness unlocked.

Day 1

Erotic Presence & Turn-On as a Way of Life

Reclaim pleasure not as a destination but as how you experience the world. Warning: you may get high on your own supplies!

Day 2

Your Erotic Body & Self-Activation

Your body is the instrument and you can tune it and activate it yourself. A very empowering practice that can shift everything in 5 minutes.

Day 3

Orgasmic Anatomy & Intimate Muscle Fitness

The most overlooked foundation of pleasure and aliveness. Toned, awake, alive — from the inside out.

Day 4

Erotic Energy Circulation & Vitality

Your sexual energy is your most powerful, creative, healing resource. Learn to circulate it intentionally and watch magic happen.

Day 5

The Art of Attunement & Sacred Sexuality

Embodied communication & the orgasm window to create deeper intimacy with yourself, a partner, or the whole world.

Day 6

The Feminine & Masculine Dance

Polarity is what creates the erotic tension that creates life. Outside and inside of you. Learn to dance with it.

Day 7

Your Turned-On Life: Integration & Intimacy Artists Celebration

Anchoring the foundations where everything compounds. You are an Intimacy Artist. This is only the beginning.

FAQ

You might be wondering...

Is this open to all genders?

Yes. Eros belongs to every human. Any gender, any orientation, any relationship status.

Is this sexually explicit?

No. Think more "finally feeling alive in your body."

What if I'm single?

Most practices are solo. Your relationship with your own body is the foundation everything else is built on.

I've done therapy, yoga and tantra. How is this different?

TOYL connects you directly with your body's erotic intelligence — rooted in modern nervous system science and following tantric principles, designed for immediate somatic shifts.

How do I access it?

After registering you'll receive a welcome email with everything you need — including your invite to the Intimacy Artist Community. The practices will land in your inbox daily.

Is it really free?

Yes. Free for now because I care about creating ripples together. I may add a small "skin in the game" fee later.

The world has been telling you to turn it down your whole life.

This is your moment

to say yes to 7 days turning it back ON, together.

If you want to go deeper after this challenge — Orgasmic Life is opening up exclusively for challenge participants at a special rate.